Fido, No! A pet owner who loves his/her dog will not be afraid of raising ones voice to stop an unwanted behavior or result. Fido might think that mushroom will be delicious but you say No! Fido might think that snake is fair game but you say No! When Fido stops because of your No! you are relieved because harm was avoided. Fido doesn't hold your No! against you, doesn't love you anyless because you're in charge, your knowledge and wisdom is a blessing for Fido. Move up the ladder in saying No! to your own flesh and blood and more feelings and emotions and challenges result from "Fido". You are fulfilling your role as guardian, Fido's free will decides to listen or not listen, sometimes with penalties of freedom. You are still the higher power with food, water and shelter and do put your foot down when necessary. In your home, you will always be on top of the pecking order. Move up the ladder, to the Creator of the Universe and all the Fido's below him, does he too say No! Happy is he when he sees Fido stop and listen to his voice. The Master of all loves Fido but will not be replaced by him.